You will discover some common reasons you might lose your feelings of love and unity with someone. In such situations you might feel hurt, bitterness, resentment, disappointment, fear, jealousy, etc. And you might close off into yourself or become defensive, offensive or aggressive. 

Our greatest obstacle towards loving ourselves is our own self-doubt, which allows others’ behaviors and expressions to activate our fears about our self-worth. We then lose our love towards them. So, in this book we use EFT tapping statements for removing most obstacles towards self-esteem. And, we will need to engage in this same process towards loving and accepting ourselves if we are to succeed in loving others in this way.

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A divorce, separation or, in general, any loss of an important relationship is a painful experience. Such pain can seriously diminish your peace and happiness.

This is true because the power which you give to your love partner is connected to such a large degree your security, happiness and self-worth, and is largely the result of your childhood experiences and especially unfinished business with your parents.

In this book we use EFT tapping statements in order to overcome your pain. Once your happiness, security and love have become internalized, you can experience unconditional love.

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Intimidators control us by making us fear them. They keep us from asking for anything or from controlling them in any way, by making us afraid to approach them. They do this by shouting, intimidating, accusing, threatening and perhaps even physical violence. They use our fear and self-doubt to control us.  For intimidators the others are always wrong and they have every “right” to punish them. They are simultaneously the police, judge, jury and execution squad.

In order to cope with the intimidators in our lives, you will need to overcome your fear. This fear might have its basis in childhood when a shouting parent was a real threat for many reasons. First of all, there might be punishment and thus emotional or physical pain. Secondly, all your security and survival were dependent on this person who was shouting and intimidating you. Thirdly, if this person was shouting in such a belittling way, this must mean that you are wrong, evil, a bad child, and thus not worthy of love and respect.

In this eBook, we will be employing EFT Statements on the issues that cause you to lose your peace of mind and your love for them. When we free ourselves from these mechanical reactions, and act consciously and lovingly, we will have much greater chances of harmony and real communication.

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In the role of the aloof you distance ourselves from others, avoiding meaningful or honest emotional contact. In this way, you are less likely to feel hurt or be controlled by people’s negative emotions, requests or demands.

There are various ways in which we have been programmed to react to situations, especially those which threaten us, make up, to a great extent, the basic fabric of our interpersonal conflicts. Such automatic defensive reactions create conflict with others, especially if our methods of “coping” clash with their needs. When we free ourselves from these mechanical reactions, and act consciously and lovingly, we will have much greater chances of harmony and real communication.

In this book we take a brief look at the role of “aloofs”, in which we and our loved ones might be avoiding meaningful or honest emotional contact, getting locked into these patterns as we battle for energy, self-affirmation, security and control. We will be employing EFT Statements on Emotions we might have when dealing with “aloofs”, that cause you to lose your peace of mind and your love for them.

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When we believe that we are responsible for their reality, and we are not able to make them happy, healthy, successful or satisfied we feel failure, self-rejection, shame and guilt. Both beliefs create codependency, resulting in conflicts that prevent both parties from maturing emotionally.

This eBook will help you understand in what areas you tend to feel responsible for creating other realities or in what areas you believe others should ‘create’ or ‘are responsible’ for your reality.

The EFT statements we have created for you in this book will help you clear these obstacles. We will all be much happier if we create relationships of conscious love, co-commitment and mutual support rather than burden each other and ourselves in these ways.

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