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If we play the Intimidator, the other may play the same role as we fight a “battle to the death” to see who will get his or her way. Or he or she may play the interrogator and defuse our weapons by making us answer to his or her criticism. Another may play the victim so that we will have mercy, feel guilty and stop. The aloof will find his peace by ignoring us.
Intimidators control us by making us fear them. They keep us from asking for anything or from controlling them in any way, by making us afraid to approach them. They do this by shouting, intimidating, accusing, threatening and perhaps even physical violence. They use our fear and self-doubt to control us. For intimidators the others are always wrong and they have every “right” to punish them. They are simultaneously the police, judge, jury and execution squad.
In order to cope with the intimidators in our lives, you will need to overcome your fear. This fear might have its basis in childhood when a shouting parent was a real threat for many reasons. First of all, there might be punishment and thus emotional or physical pain. Secondly, all your security and survival were dependent on this person who was shouting and intimidating you. Thirdly, if this person was shouting in such a belittling way, this must mean that you are wrong, evil, a bad child, and thus not worthy of love and respect.
In this eBook, we will be employing EFT Statements on the issues that cause you to lose your peace of mind and your love for them. When we free ourselves from these mechanical reactions, and act consciously and lovingly, we will have much greater chances of harmony and real communication.
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