Description
If you play the Aloof, the other may do the same and the two of you will simply never communicate. More likely, however, one of you will play the intimidator or interrogator in order to get attention by addressing any fears and need for approval.
In the role of the aloof you distance ourselves from others, avoiding meaningful or honest emotional contact. In this way, you are less likely to feel hurt or be controlled by people’s negative emotions, requests or demands.
There are various ways in which we have been programmed to react to situations, especially those which threaten us, make up, to a great extent, the basic fabric of our interpersonal conflicts. Such automatic defensive reactions create conflict with others, especially if our methods of “coping” clash with their needs. When we free ourselves from these mechanical reactions, and act consciously and lovingly, we will have much greater chances of harmony and real communication.
In this book we take a brief look at the role of “aloofs”, in which we and our loved ones might be avoiding meaningful or honest emotional contact, getting locked into these patterns as we battle for energy, self-affirmation, security and control. We will be employing EFT Statements on Emotions we might have when dealing with “aloofs”, that cause you to lose your peace of mind and your love for them.
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